The "Dear Me" Project

by Miscellaneous Mum on January 23, 2007 · 31 comments

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The “Dear Me,” Project

Have you ever wished you could go back in time? That if you could, you’d warn yourself not to date that man, or wear that outfit or hairstyle? To look after yourself better? To be kinder to yourself or others? What did you learn from these experiences? What can others learn?

Or would you like to gush about your wedding day? A party? Your children? Spoil the surprise, naturally, but celebrate what’s to come.

Well, here’s your chance!

I am issuing an invitation for anyone to enter the “Dear Me” Project. Spill the beans to us all and maybe even learn about yourself in the process.

What to do

It’s simple, really. Link back to this original post (and feel free to use the above button if you wish) and then confess what you will in an open letter to yourself.

To keep the time differentiation clear, it might be best to address yourself “Dear Me (year of time of reference)” and signed “Love Me (2007). See my story for an example if unclear.

It is my hope to compile a list of participants below, so that we may share, laugh, cry, and nod our heads sagely at our past bloopers and triumphs. So please, email me your post’s permalink and title, plus your name, to miscmum@gmail.com and wha-la! Instant therapy. I will add you accordingly and send you karmic good vibes for giving it a go.

It will be ‘open’ for an indefinite period of time, so don’t feel like you need to rush. If you would like to join, but wish to remain anonymous, email me the letter and I can post it here instead.

Any comments, thoughts, on the “Dear Me” Project most welcome.

Entries

Miscellaneous Mum’s Standing on the outside, looking in

Anonymous’ Dear Me (June 1994)

Anonymous’ Dear Me (May 1997)

Crazy Trace’s Maybe, just..rebel a bit…

Shishyboo’s Dear Me (Feb 1990)

The Brave’s Dear Me (August 1988)

Catherine’s To the girl who almost lost a digit back in ‘85

TrudyJ’s Dear Me (1987, Oshawa Ontario)

RMB’s Dear Me (February 14 1990, Hartland WI)

GingaJoy’s Dear Me (September, 1986)

MadHatter’s Mad Hatter at 41- February 23, 2007 *Huh? You’ll think. Trust me, it works*

BubandPie’s Dear Me (September 1, 1989)

Catherine McNeil’s An open letter to myself

Beck’s Cordially, Future Dwight

Cinnamon Gurl’s Dear Katie (January 1992)

Owlhaven’s Dear Me in 1983

Jill’s And They’re All Made Out of Ticky-Tacky, Still They’re Not All Just the Same

MadMomma’s Dear Me (April 23rd 2003)

Jenna’s Dear 2003 Me

Angewa’s Feb 26th (2006) Dear the Me Of a Year Ago

Spryngtree’s Dear Golden Shining Little Girl, 1973

A Mother’s Life For Me Dear Me January 1991

Mamagigi’s Dear 2005 Me

Sara’s Dear 2001 Me

Liz’s Dear Me (Circa 1987)

Meena’s Dear Me (Feb 21, 2005

Mommy, the human napkin’s It’s not always going to be about the big hair, New Kids On The Block, and popularity

MJS4Him’s Dear Me (early 1980’s)

Jenny’s Dear Me (1996)

Karen’s Dear Me (May 1987)

Musings of a Housewife’s Dear Me (August 4, 1995)

Rocks in my Dryer’s Dear Me (1987)

Tracey’s Dear Me, 1997

momto3boy’s Dear Me 1982

Christie’s Dear Me 1990

Leslie’s Dear Me 1991

Margaret’s Dear Me 2003

Tracy’s Dear Me 1992

Beth’s Dear Me 2003

Mercy’s Maid Dear Me 1990-ish

Farmer’s Wife Dear Me Circa 1997

Shannon’s Dear Me 1991

Kimberly’s Dear Me

Tessa’s Dear Tessa in 1997

MrsLady’s Dear Me (April 2002)

Ginger’s Dear Me 1992

Girls’ Gone Wild Dear GGW of 1987

Barbara’s Dear Me in 1973

Life and Time of Leish’s Dear Me Summer 1993

Beth’s Dear 1995 Me

Jellyjules’ Dear 1987 J

PiesBonitos’ Dear Me 1997

Generation Xhausted’s Letter to myself, June 1983

Starshine’s Dear 1985 Me

Sarantium’s Dear Me 1998

Kim Wilson’sThe present seeing the past looking to the future

Jennifer’s Dear 1997 Me

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{ 31 comments… read them below or add one }

local girl January 25, 2007 at 9:22 pm

I’m going to have to sit down and think about this one.

Thanks for sharing this great idea with the Carnival of Family Life.h

Miscellaneous-Mum January 26, 2007 at 5:01 am

You’re welcome!

Lisa January 30, 2007 at 1:44 am

What a cute idea.

Here via the carnival of family life.

Andrea February 14, 2007 at 12:00 am

Here via TrudyJ–I’ll be stealing this one tomorrow. Thanks!

gingajoy February 20, 2007 at 10:01 pm

hello! i love this idea for a project. thanks!

I just posted my own letter at: http://gingajoy.blogspot.com/2007/02/dear-me.html

bubandpie February 24, 2007 at 11:09 pm

What a great idea – I just put mine up today.

Mad Hatter February 25, 2007 at 3:28 am

Thank’s for the link up. This is such a good idea: fun and heart breaking.

cinnamon gurl February 25, 2007 at 9:38 pm

Great idea! I did one today… thanks!

Owlhaven February 26, 2007 at 5:13 am

I put one up too!

Mary, mom to many

NotSoSage February 26, 2007 at 6:03 am

Hey, I saw the idea over at B&P’s and Mad’s and couldn’t get it out of my head. You’ll find mine up now, too.

Thanks for the great idea…and more to read!

The Mad Momma February 26, 2007 at 9:09 am

This is such a great idea!!! Thank you for sharing.. I put up mine at

http://themadmomma.blogspot.com/2007/02/dear-me-of-2003.html

Jenna February 26, 2007 at 6:57 pm
Sara February 28, 2007 at 5:13 pm
MJS4Him March 2, 2007 at 12:31 pm

I had to participate in this one. I would love to let young me know to keep her head up. It all works out in the end.

Chuck and Jenny March 5, 2007 at 5:57 am

I finally read enough of these that I did my own!

http://bringbabyhome.blogspot.com/2007/03/dear-me.html

Rocks In My Dryer March 5, 2007 at 2:02 pm

Thanks so much for this great idea! Here’s mine:

http://rocksinmydryer.typepad.com/shannon/2007/03/dear_me_in_1987.html

Meena March 5, 2007 at 2:41 pm

A very lovely idea, thank you!

Here is my contribution: http://pdx-mama.blogspot.com/2007/03/dear-me.html

Mommy, the Human Napkin March 5, 2007 at 4:50 pm

I couldn’t resist writing to myself as a 14-year-old eighth grader! Mine’s up!

http://realmofcrazypeople.blogspot.com/2007/03/its-not-always-going-to-be-about-big.html

Karen March 5, 2007 at 8:13 pm

I wrote mine to myself when I was 18 and had just graduated…a very tumultous time for me. Thanks for this project! Neat idea.

Mine is at http://simplyamusingblog.blogspot.com/2007/03/dear-me-in-1987.html

Margaret March 5, 2007 at 11:00 pm

I just did mine. Thank you for this. Really…
http://margaretsally.blogspot.com/2007/03/dear-me.html

Leslie March 5, 2007 at 11:32 pm
Connie March 6, 2007 at 12:15 am
aka_Meritt March 6, 2007 at 1:10 am

What a wonderful idea… I’m going to play too!

dcrmom March 6, 2007 at 2:38 pm

Thanks for adding me! I was just coming over to leave my link.

janet March 6, 2007 at 3:14 pm

http://momto3boys.wordpress.com/2007/03/06/dear-me/
it’s funny, as I wrote I kept thinking of more “warnings”. i’m glad I am who I am so although I wouldn’t take anything back I may hold back a little more. Thanks for the time you put in to this. It was fun.

Mercy's Maid March 6, 2007 at 8:43 pm

I’ve just written my own Dear Me letter at http://mercysnumber1fan.blogspot.com/2007/03/dear-me-project.html

This is a great idea. Thanks.

Barbara H. March 8, 2007 at 3:25 pm

I saw this at Owlhaven’s and Rocks In My Dryer. This is a wonderful project. It was such a blessing to look back at the hand of God over my life. Mine is at
http://barbarah.wordpress.com/2007/03/08/dear-me-in-1973/

Thank you for staring this!

IRENE March 9, 2007 at 9:02 am

Hello,
and thank you for stopping by and commenting.
What a nice idea. I really need to do this, it helps put things into perspective…
So many things happen in our lives and we do not know why. So good to know that God’s on the wheel…

Beth/Mom2TwoVikings March 14, 2007 at 3:26 am

Can’t get the “add a link” to work for me. So, just wanted you to know that I finally got around to posting mine: http://twolittlevikings.blogspot.com/2007/03/dear-me-1995.html

Thanks!

Shelley March 25, 2007 at 4:56 pm

Great idea! Here’s mine:
Generation Xhausted
Letter to myself June 1983

http://movershakerbirthdaycakebaker.blogs.com/generation_exhausted/2007/03/letter_to_mysel.html

Kim March 29, 2007 at 6:25 pm

Not quite in the same format, but here is mine!

http://wilsonworld.typepad.com/wilsonworld/2007/03/the_present_see.html

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